In my first ever blog post, I talked about how I am a married man, married for a long time, and the fact that my hottie, although still very sexy to me is not very interested in sex anymore. When we do have it, its great. But that is something that happens once every 2 months or so. So here I am on yuvutu, and letting my curiosity get the better of me.. lol. I already knew that I have voyeur traits. I like to watch. But in the last few months here on the site I have figured out that I like to be watched by women too. also, At first it was embarrassing to me to be watched by guys on cam, but I then figured out that if they want to watch.. well whatever they like. I cant judge for sure. I have also figured out that I would like to try being directed. kind of like a dom/sub situation. So what are some of the things anyone else likes?? as I am exploring sexually, wondering what other women, and men like me are thinking.